Sunday, February 21, 2010

24/7 Master-Slave Relationship: A Conversation... An Advice

A few days ago (over my PlanetRomeo account), I received a message from an inexperienced Filipino Slave who is currently in a 24/7 Master-Slave Relationship here in the Philippines. The conversation is as follows:

1. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 01:26]

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hi Sir!
may i see your facepic pls?
;-)


2. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 01:34]
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no


3. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:10]
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ok...
can i ask you few questions Sir?


4. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:10]
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shoot


5. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:13]
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i am in a D/s relationship..and i am a slave..

but very new to this kind of lifestyle that's why i made a lot of
mistakes and my Master is very angry to me now...

any advise to redeem myself to Him and have Him back in my life as my
Master?


6. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:15]
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i would need more details and specifics before i can comment on your
predicament/situation.

about you. about him. your relationship.


7. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:22]
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well,He had to go to US for work then he gave me a task not to contact
Him for a month then set me free for a month...i thought i could do
anything i want in free mode then i chatted a guy and was supposed to
have sex with the guy but my Master accessed my account and found out
about that then He got dissapointed on my behaviour being a whore...then
he said i should not contact Him totally untill He change His mind to
have me back and contact Him..but im worried that He hates me already and
doesn't want me anymore...
should i appologize or just wait for Him to contact me coz that was His
order?


8. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:26]
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when he set you free for a month, things were not very clear to you. but
since you're the slave, you can't argue with him.

you could apologize and wait.... or just follow his orders not to
contact him TOTALLY, and hope he'd change his mind.

he is a foreigner, right?


9. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:30]
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yeah!that's what i told Him..since i was very knew to this...things is
very unclear to me everytime He gives me task...

well,i apologize to Him last night and He replied tonight and told me
that i am only proven that i am very 'makulit" and now He just gave me a
task again not to contack Him until march xx... ;(

my Master is half american half pinoy...


10. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:38]
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yep. that's your prize of wanting to be a slave. live with that. deal
with it. you should have researched on what a slave like you should do
before getting in a relationship with a master. hopefully he has not
turned you into a "pig" yet.

you can only wait till march xx.


11. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:38]
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Sir,hope you don't mind me asking...
my Master likes BDSM as well, but i can't do it for Him since i am only
into SM..but we agreed to that...my limits are fisting and dog slaving...

should i learn to do that coz He might look for another slave who can do
that or it's ok not to do it since i don't like it?

12. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:47]
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ok or not ok, only you can decide on that.

bondage is the one i like the most. it brings out my creativity.

however, it seems like your master is into CONTROL and not with the art
form of Rope Bondage. you can tell your master that you are willing to
learn if only he would introduce you to it slowly.

it is possible that he'd look for another slave, if he can't do the
things he want to his slave. just a possibility. this fetish is not
common in the philippines.


13. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:40]
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is it sure that He will contact me again on March xx or maybe He is not
telling me directly that He doesn't like me and see me anymore?

what is a pig Sir?


14. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:48]
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sure? it is only he who can decide on that.

pig? you should research, boy. start now. not just for PIG, but your
role as a SLAVE.

15. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:52]
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well,ive been starting to have my research actually but i havnt read
about pig yet... ;-)


16. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:51]
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is it really normal for a Master to have a lot of slave?
or is it ok that my Master is also a slave of another guy?


17. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:53]
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in the philippines, i am not sure. there's no such study done yet here, that i am aware of.

why don't you google then?


18. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:54]
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there are lots. google for BDSM and PIG keywords.

19. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:56]
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thanks Sir!


20. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:54]
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are you really a pinoy?
or a foreigner?


21. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:55]
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haha. pinoy na pinoy ako.

what made you think na foreigner ako?

22. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [18. Feb. 2010 - 23:58]
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ah ok!hehe!
i thought you are a foreigner coz the way you construct your sentence..

how long have you been into this lifestyle Sir?
and how many slaves you have?

are you into D/s or just the session of BDSM only?
have you ever been to D/s relationship?


23. pinoyBDSMmaster (#5741389) - [19. Feb. 2010 - 00:03]
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construct my sentences, eh? hehe. i would take that as a compliment then.

been a master for about 2-3 years. i've stopped being a master for a few
years: priorities, commitments, etc. this is not actually my fetish.
found this out from my past bed/sexmates. and they found me to be a good
master. so, i am just here to help some pinoys realize their fantasies
that they've been hoping for. it would seem that i am the master, but it
is really the slaves who are really in control. i would just be there to
provide them with the experience, plesure and pain they desire.

i just came back this january, and had 3 slaves in 6 weeks.

all the services i am offering are only during sessions, and/or during
chats/messaging/communication because my slaves would prefer to continue
calling me Sir/Master even after the session.

i would not indulge into a slave-master 24/7 relastionship like you have.
not my thing. i'd rather have a normal relationship. though being
courted by a slave is not new to me.


24. -xxxxx- (#57xxxxx) - [19. Feb. 2010 - 00:09]
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i see... ;-)

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In the past week since I've created and posted my PlanetRomeo account, pinoyBDSMmaster, I have received so many inquiries and request for sessions, from guys from the different income spectrum and social status.

The first thing I do is to evaluate them: (1) things/scenes/segments from my list they want to experience, (2) the extent of their experience in this, if any, (3) their knowledge of the things they want to experience, (4) place for the session and its proximity to me, (5) do they have existing equipment / paraphernalia or their knowledge of the these things for the scenes they want, (6) their preferred schedule for the session if they qualify to be slave, etc.

One common factor in a lot of them is INEXPERIENCE or IGNORANCE of the things they want to experience. Many times, I would explain these things in the simplest possible manner and even suggest to them to google for them. With regards to the equipment / paraphernalia, I would provide them with the details of required materials and where and how to acquire/purchase them. More often than not, I am the one bringing them for the session. And many of the replies I got after enlightening them, is how overwhelming the info I gave them is, or they were not aware that there are so many preparations or details that they need to know.

This would sometime worry me when guys (like the slave above, or guys wanting to be fisted) would tread into the dangerous waters without the proper knowledge of the things that they are getting in to. They just love the idea of getting into one, maybe after reading from the Internet, or watching a BDSM porn. This might have aroused and and tickled their fancy -- "That's so exciting! I want to experience it!". This is quite risky, and would many times lead to failure or disappointment. This is especially true when the Master they decide to take in is not experienced enough, or not even aware of the things that a Master must know.

My advice is always the same: Be prepared, have the proper knowledge, get an experienced but safe and trustworthy master, communicate, be 100% sure when getting into a session, and most of all, a slave can always say STOP at any point of the session.

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